I arrived Thursday and ran into the arms of Andy. We were only apart for a little over 2 weeks, but I felt like it was forever since I'd seen him. He had a bouquet of lilies and roses as well as a smoothie, and a vegan peanut butter jelly banana sandwich (it was a request) for me. :) We spent the first night watching cuddled up in bed while we watched Apoclyptco.

Friday I got to hang out with Mel & Tammy. (But since I adore the two so much, I am making a separate entry to document our fun/my haul) When I came home there was my Chocolate Daddy waiting for me with open arms and kisses... He was worried. I've never had a bf care so much for me, so seeing and feeling that he was actually concerned about me shopping alone with the ladies made me feel so special. That night he cooked a special dinner for me! Seared Scallops w/ a spicy mango sauce! Omg was it absolutely delicious... My man deff. spoils me! That night we relaxed at home and talked the night away in bed. I actually fell asleep while I was petting his face. lol. It was the damn wine I tell you!
Saturday was the 4th and I got to meet a lot of Andy's family in Brooklyn NY. Unfortunately I don't have pics because I was:1-Too busy hiding from the dance floor
2-Helping Andy grill
3-Being introduced to everyone by Andy's mom (she surprised us and drove up from RI!) as her daughter. :) Oh yeah!
4-Talking to Andy's little brother about safe sex.
All in all, the BBQ was a success, even though the dancing kind of was... Let's say culture shock to me... lol. It was fun though! And the food was fabulous, the Haitian Black rice was my fave!
Sunday Andy made me some amazing French toast and flobauyed (spelling please?) bananas with vanilla syrup! I killed them, they were absolutely delicious, so delicious it was like sex!
Then Andy and I got tattoos together... I told you guys Andy spoils me! :) Andy got "know one self" in Latin on his arm, and I got a lotus flower on my hip! It was my first tattoo, and I am so glad that I got to share that experience with my man.
Julio, our tattoo artist was very patient with us, listened to use carefully and gave us everything we wanted. :) Very down to earth guy!
Julio, our tattoo artist was very patient with us, listened to use carefully and gave us everything we wanted. :) Very down to earth guy!
Julio's money rose tatt. Isn't is sick?!
hehe. My man's so brave. :)
His smile makes me melt. :) They also act like a night lightif I wake up in the middle of the night. =] hehe
All Done. :) I can't wait to see him when it's all healed...Another tatt for me to trace in bed! muahaha.
Andy held my hand the whole time,talked to me and told Julio stories to distract me from the pain.
I got it done right over mt hip bone, so it hurt...
A Lot!
It's a good size, and it's concealable from my parents. Perfect! lol
An hr and a half of pain later, my tattoo was finished!I love it, and I love the whole metaphor of lotuses too. I can relate.
Andy said he was very proud of me, and even Julio was surprised that I didn't flip out. Later that night I had a hamburger craving so Andy made hamburgers! Having a top chef bf is amazing, I seriously recommend it. That night I also got a little tipsy and Andy even picked me up and put me on the sink while he cleaned my tattoo for me. He's so caring I get emotional thinking of it sometimes. I am such a lucky girl to have such an amazing man in my life.
Monday was rough for me... Our last day together... But I was determined not to let it bother me. We first had a picnic in the park! We ordered pepperoni pizza and banana peppers(my fave). After eating we just laid there talking and watching the little kids play around us. It was truly a great day for a picnic.
It was pretty good too! We didn't have much time to waste,because Andy would have made a pizza from scratch.
My legend having an epiphany. Isn't he handsome?
And a kiss to end our picnic. yayThen it was off to New York! We: hit up the Dinsey store and Chinatown, kissed in Chinatown and pissed off some closed minded Asians, met up with his friend/lil sis, ate dirty water hot dogs before dinner,then went to dinner immediately after.
lol we made put together a mr. potato head at the Disney store.
I bought Andy lots of sweets from the Asian Bakeriesand I told him to pose with the bags, but an Asian way. This is the result. lmao
haha me bothering Andy when he was on the phonetrying to find a place to have dinner.
lol Still bothering Andy while he's on the phone.
Andy has a tradition of getting a dirty water hot dog everytime he goes to NY...
And I was totally down to eat a hot dog, it's been honestly years.I am obv. more intense in this posed pic. lmao
Then we had Dinner at Taboon, a Moroccan restaurant. We ate outside with candlelight and it was really romantic and nice! A lot of people were looking at us... I guess they noticed how happy and completely in love we were. It felt nice. We didn't eat much for dinner because we had already had the hot dogs, but everything we had was great anyways! For an appetizer we had the humus. And omg I am so sad that I forgot to take a picture! :( It was so delicious, and the bread was amazing! And picked the best bottle of wine to pair with it too, so my wine was sweet. hehe My bf is a professional bitches!
Beef Chouma
Then for dessert we had knaffe, this is just indescribable... It was FABULOUS!After dinner we were tired and it was time to go home. Andy put back my seat and made me go to sleep during the ride home. So by the time I opened my eyes, we were home already. I kind of broke down and cried though because I knew time was getting closer... Until I had to go home and leave Andy for a week or two. Andy calmed me down and told me not to think about it, and held me and ran his fingers through my hair and petted my head until I feel into a deep sleep. He's so good to me.
Before I knew it, it was morning time already and after packing and getting things in order, it was time to go to work with Andy... I had another meltdown and cried again. Again Andy got me to stop crying.
At work I got to sit in Andy's office and write on his FB wall as well as a love note that I hung on his desk. I met a few staff members and just tried to stay calm and control another crying episode. It really is agonizing to leave his side, it really is... He was running around the kitchen doing his prep and making sure his staff did everything they were suppose to do while he was off. Then surprisingly he comes in with a plate. He made me eat... He's so sweet! He was so busy, yet he still found time for me.
Before I knew it, it was morning time already and after packing and getting things in order, it was time to go to work with Andy... I had another meltdown and cried again. Again Andy got me to stop crying.
At work I got to sit in Andy's office and write on his FB wall as well as a love note that I hung on his desk. I met a few staff members and just tried to stay calm and control another crying episode. It really is agonizing to leave his side, it really is... He was running around the kitchen doing his prep and making sure his staff did everything they were suppose to do while he was off. Then surprisingly he comes in with a plate. He made me eat... He's so sweet! He was so busy, yet he still found time for me.
About an hour later it was time to head to the train station... In the car I couldn't hold it back much longer and broke down yet again. I cried while I got my ticket and clung onto Andy at the train station like a little kid. :( I stopped crying around 20 minutes later... Then I looked down at the paper bag he had packed me.... Cookies and a fruit cup... He really does take care of me already.... I started to cry for another half an hr. Luckily I had my sunglasses. Ugh Do I miss him so much, and it has only been a day!
I feel like no one else has ever existed before Andy... I don't care what people think about us, I don't care if people laugh and say this is so soon, so fast of me, because those people essentially don't know how it feels to be in love like me. It was funny because even at the tattoo parlor the receptionist told us that it seemed like we have been together for a very long time. We both laughed and just told her how long we knew each other. Happiness and love is contagious, and when we were walking the streets of NYC, around NJ, anywhere I could that what I have is indeed real.
I have finally met the one that I have been searching for. But most importantly I feel like I have found the rest ofmyself . Nosce De Ipsum. Just like his tattoo.
I feel like no one else has ever existed before Andy... I don't care what people think about us, I don't care if people laugh and say this is so soon, so fast of me, because those people essentially don't know how it feels to be in love like me. It was funny because even at the tattoo parlor the receptionist told us that it seemed like we have been together for a very long time. We both laughed and just told her how long we knew each other. Happiness and love is contagious, and when we were walking the streets of NYC, around NJ, anywhere I could that what I have is indeed real.
I have finally met the one that I have been searching for. But most importantly I feel like I have found the rest of
Smooches,
Nu Nu Doll
P.S.
I'll post my haul and time with my lovely ladies at mitsuwa in a few days, so stay tuned! ;)



18 comments:
I love that black dress your wearing! Where is it from? All the food pics look so yummy :D.
awwww glad to know you had a wonderful time with you man. don't let the close-minded people get you down. i'm engaged to a mexican and my uncle is black. i don't care either. i think it's fucking retarded for people to be so ignorant! anyway, i think MIXED babies are the cutest! who wants a vietnamese baby, anyway? lol...i want a vietxican! lol. i know when i was with joey, i knew within the first month that i wanted to marry him. it's been over 6 years now and i am still very much in love with him. he treats me like a queen and i love being with him. we still write each other letters and cook for one another. i think that's why we're still together =) we balance each other out and i wouldn't have it any other way! best wishes to you and your man =)
I love this. It's like one of those old love story movies. And at the end you get on a train. Love story ending.
I knew my hubby forever, but we didn't click. Then 1 day out of the blue, I bumped into him & it was love at first sight. Love doen't take forever. It takes however long it needs to, 1 day, week, month, or decade!
All the food really made me hungry again. What a great trip.
girl.. he was such a sweetheart and so down to earth from the short time i talked to him! hehe.. and wouldn't i LOVE to have a personal chef cook for me all the time!!! hehee..
FOOD!!! You are so lucky Nu!! So spoiled!
awww nu!!! i am so happy to see that ur really happy. andy is a keeper!! he is so sweet n good to u! u deserve each other!! dun be sad hum, in no time, you will be in his arms!!
by the way, delicious post! i want my next man to be a chef too!!!
love u hun!!!
the food pictures make me soooo hungry lol! your trip looks fun : )
aww u got me tearing at some parts lol. ur bf is too sweeeet.
also, who cares what others think. My BF is Dominican, I'm Filipina and we live in a very spanish community and we get stared down like no other! it makes me mad, but whatever they are just jealous! they can go to hell lol.
Also, my BF and I went very fast in the beginning too, but look at us, almost 4 years later we are still happily together =) Everyone always told us back in 2005 that we are taking each other too serious, but now we just laugh at all those people who judged us and all! lol. seriously, do what makes you happy =) i think some people get so judgmental simply becuz they dont know how it is to be so head over heels in love.
Awwww thats so romantic! Wish my bf would cook for me haha. I love love love your tat! I have one on my back and its a lotus too! but its colored and im thinking bout adding more to it. Cant wait for your next post! xoxo
aww u guys look so happy together =)
hello nu nu:]
your story is wonderful almost made me cry. I wish somday i'll find my fairy tale.Its so cute how yall got tats together so romantic.
Nu you almost made me cry!!!!!!!!!!! I'm Team Nu & Andy!!!! You guys are freakin adorable!!
btw--where's my koala..?? haha!!
you two are so cute! nu, u rebel with your tattoo! haha. don't let yo daddy google you. i am so happy for you guys. long distance is tough, but you guys are strong enough to keep it together.
love the new tat! and i love your outfut and sandals.. so sexxxyyy! ;]
Wow...im so jealous....how sweet and caring and heartfelt! i want a man like that!! glad you got him girl!
Don't let the side eye from haters bug you!! I know your not! Y'all are like soul mates!!! You should of told me you were going to a family BBQ in BK. I would of givin you a quickie lesson on Black Folk BBQs 101. Your just gonna have to learn to dance....
XoXo
PS. Sorry again for the drunk dial! It's all love!
awww cute! I love guys who can cook! And that's romantic that you got your first tattoo with your hubby :)
Aww girl, you guys are soo cute!!
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